Dr. Elizabeth Stewart is an appraiser with three decades of experience.
She is a certified member of the Appraiser’s Association of America, and the author of No Thanks Mom: The Top Ten Objects Your Kids Do NOT Want (and what to do with them).
Here is her list of the top 10 items your kids do not want to inherit and what to do with them:
Number 10: Books
Unless your grown children are professors, they probably don’t want your books. However, if you believe your books have value, contact a book antiquarian.
Number 9: Paper ephemera
Things like family snapshots, old greeting cards and postcards are called paper ephemera. Old photos are worthless unless they picture a celebrity or are linked with an important historical event. Old greeting cards are not valuable unless handmade by a famous artist or sent by a famous person. Take all your family snapshots and have them made into digital files.
Number 8: Steamer trunks, sewing machines, and film projectors
Steamer trunks from the 19th century are so abundant that they are not valuable, unless the maker is Louis Vuitton or some other famous luggage house. Old sewing machines are not valuable. Thrift stores are full of old projectors for home movies. Unless your family member was a professional and the item is top-notch, yours can go there as well.
Number 7: Porcelain figurine collections and Bradford Exchange ‘cabinet’ plates
These collections of frogs, bells, flowers, bees, trolls, Hummel’s, and Precious Moments have no market value. Find a retirement home that does a gift exchange at Christmas and donate the figurines. Collector’s plates will not sell anywhere to anyone. Donate these to a retirement village as well or to anyone who will take them.
Number 6: Silver-plated objects
Your grown children will not polish silver-plated items, and they are not valuable. The exception may be silver-plated items from Cristofle, Tiffany, Cartier, Asprey, and other manufacturers of note. The remedy is to give these items away.
Number 5: Heavy, dark, antique furniture
There is a good chance you will have to pay someone to take this furniture off your hands. Instead, Donate it and take a noncash charitable contribution using fair market valuation. Use reporting services such as P4A.com to find where this class of furniture sells.
Number 4: Persian rugs
The décor of the average millennial does not lend itself to a collection of multicolored (and sometimes threadbare) Persian rugs. The high-end market is still collecting in certain parts of the U.S., but unless the rug is rare, it is one of the hardest things to sell. Like antique furniture, it may be best to donate.
Number 3: Linens
Try giving your daughter five boxes of hand-embroidered pillowcases, guest towels, napkins, and table linens. She might not even own an ironing board, and she definitely doesn’t set that kind of table. You can donate linens to costume shops of theaters and deduct the donation. A site like P4a.com has auction results to establish the fair market value of such objects.
Number 2: Sterling silver flatware and crystal wine services
Unless the scrap value for silver is high enough for a meltdown, matching sets of sterling flatware are hard to sell because they rarely go for “antique” value. Formal entertaining is not a priority these days. Sterling must be hand-washed and dried. Same goes for crystal.
Sites like Replacements.com offer matching services for folks who DO enjoy silver flatware and have recognized patterns. Because they sell per piece, and therefore buy per piece, sellers get a rather good price. Unless your crystal is Lalique, Moser, Steuben, Baccara, or another great name, you will not be able to sell your “nice set.” Give “unknown maker” sets away, fast.
Number 1: Fine porcelain dinnerware
Your grown children may not want to store four sets of fancy porcelain dinnerware, and don’t see the glory in unpacking it once a year for a holiday or event.
Like silverware, china is something to consider for sale to a replacement matching service like Replacements.com. Know your pattern to get a quote from one. Because such replacement companies buy per piece, the aggregate of the selling price is always more than a bulk sale at a consignment store, which might be your only other option.
Reference: Elizabeth Stewart, 10 things your kids don’t want to inherit, Market Watch (March 17, 2018).